YOU CAN'T REALLY BLAME THE WOMEN

Lots of my home boys will probably think I have lost my mind after reading this article, because it would definitely please the world feminist population. Not to worry guys, I will always groove: “these hoes ain’t loyal” with you all on any front. Women: these are dazzling creatures that were created with the utmost artistry, both in their physicality and character. These beautiful beings never had it fair and still don't in some parts of the world. Women have always been prejudiced from history; in the medieval times and up until early western civilization. Women were treated as property, 'something' you could give out or use as you so wish, 'something' that had neither a say nor an opinion. As for the women who were born into noble families, they were groomed like an investment to be married off to a man of capable means just for the purpose of breeding and taking care of the home. They could not own properties, take up a career or have a say. I guess I will stop here because it will take a whole book to summarize the injustice done to women.

These beautiful beings have long been hunted since puberty. They have come across all sorts of jerks, assholes, fools, pedophiles, heart breakers, needy guys and guys that just don’t get it. Our (male) species have so much destroyed the dating platform that it makes it so difficult for the good guys with good intentions to have a chance at getting their dream girl. Unlike us guys, girls enter the dating scene early(when a guy of similar age would still be thinking of the next video game to play or exam to pass); probably evident from the fact that they get sexually matured earlier than their male counterparts, even the shiest among them will always have a guy chasing her. Which makes me pity shy guys, because girls are not so much in the habit of chasing guys except you’re wealthy, very handsome or you probably possess something special that they desire. Since women get introduced to the dating scene quite early, they always have their fair share of the good, the bad and the ugly experiences. So don’t blame them when they’re too quick to judge or give you attention. It’s our fault.




Kudos to Chris Brown wherever he is. The jilted male population appreciates that your song a lot. I could argue women have no conscience but it wouldn’t please my feminist readers, yet they could be so blunt in their actions, cheating and lying to your face even when we assume them to be the more faithful sex. I try not to criticize since I know guys are not any better. Where it becomes an issue is that we are stereotyped to believe women are supposed to be committed and responsible. In the modern day, social conditioning that once held women on a tight leash no longer has its hold on them. Women are just as promiscuous as men and the world is beginning to see it as something normal. They care less about their reputation which used to be something of great value in the past.




In my country Nigeria, if a man cheats, probably gets another woman pregnant, if he is apologetic enough, he calls a family meeting; with the aim of begging the wife to accept the issue as it is; but if the slightest evidence of infidelity is noticed on a woman’s part she is sent packing. It‘s culture, but it is not in anyway fair. Some might back this up with the parable of the key and lock (A key that can open any lock is a master key, but a lock that can be opened by any key is useless). It then struck me; you can’t really blame the women. It’s genetic of them to look for greener pastures. In animals, the female animal will always want to mate with the strongest male animal, the badass male with the huge pride. This is also parallel to humans, no one wants a liability. Women will always prefer the rich guy that can take care of their needs and that of their unborn children. It’s basic animal instinct, as humans we have the sense of thinking, it’s commonsensical to know that it’s not all that glitters that is gold. We should work to build our homes.




Women are emotional creatures they rarely venture into logical thinking. They think most times with their hearts that are supple and flexible. Men take advantage of this and in some cases get in the way of their faithfulness. I must confess it is never easy to be a woman, particularly a very pretty one at that. You’ll always have a long list of men standing on your queue, pestering you and persistently chasing you, even till you’re married. Yet you can only have one due to social conditioning, else you’ll be called a slut. I trust my guys, we can’t survive with such constraints, we wouldn’t even mind if you call us names. It’s never easy for a woman, yet they are so compassionate and forgiving when we come home to them from our “adventures”. Advice to women: Improve yourself such that you won’t be expendable, marriage won’t be all you look forward to and you won’t be forced or helpless to tolerate all that a man does.



Saying for men: Life is a boomerang, good luck with that guy's boo you’re chasing, little do you know that the chase is red hot on your boo as well. {We probably care less because we feel she is playing us too}….. HuMMing ***these hoes ain’t loyal*** Watch out for; "you can’t really blame the men". Feminists out there, are you happy??????