THE BROAD WAY TO HIS HEART

Without flinching he had just thrown his wife over the balcony, like a sack of nothing. What a horrid sight?! Just before remorse of his actions could kick in, with his eyes blazing red, he shouted in anger that, “no one dares taunt my favorite team whenever they are losing on live TV”. One might say it’s craziness at its peak, while others might argue that he was overly passionate to a disastrous effect. The world says the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Others argue it’s through sex. What if I told you they’re all wrong? I can bet you will be in state of disbelieve. There is no doubt that every man loves a good meal and will so much cherish a woman that can provide that for him. So also sex might be ingrained in keeping your man because it creates a connection yet it doesn’t keep him forever interested and attracted to you.

The express and broad way to a man’s heart is getting interested and taking part in what interests him. Like the food and sex gluttons they are assumed to be, it becomes quite obvious that food and sex are not all that matter in the case of desires. Men have likes, hobbies and stuffs they are passionate about. REALITY CHECK: A man can always find a woman that can cook better than his girlfriend or wife, the neighboring canteen is never too far and a man can also find good sex elsewhere. Finally food and sex can’t be served 24/7.

What I’m about to tell you is your sure bet of keeping him on your leash. A good relationship is one that is devoid of boredom which kills relationships swiftly and in most cases eventually leads to break up or cheating. If you get to see how guys are passionate about what they love, you tend to doubt if their love for you actually exceeds the love for the things they’re passionate about. I know many dudes that ignore their “sweetheart’s” messages and calls whenever they are watching their favorite sport. There was even a married man with kids that put up his house up for bet on a football match (he’s definitely more passionate about football than his family), unfortunately he lost the bet along with the house. We’ve heard of men that drank highly concentrated cleaning agent because of heartbreak, so also we’ve learnt of guys that died from heart attack while watching their favourite sport.

My elder brother in his own words will propose to any girl that shares his taste in music (rap, pop, rock), and loves to play games. A saying goes thus, “if he pauses his game (or something he is really involved in) to reply your text, MARRY HIM. The truth is 98% of guys won’t pause just to reply you, though we love you babes I suppose. Damn right, you now know he wasn’t busy all the time he claimed to be busy (doing what he’s passionate about). I also know guys that will be so happy with any girl that can keep up with their geeky conversations and talks about celebrity stories. Some will kill for ladies that like novels like they do or ladies that are as social as them.

Bottom line is that the familiarity and similarity of what we like and what you like strengthens the bond between us. Women should make an effort at developing interest in what their male counterparts like. As this not only creates a fun time for both of you, it also eradicates boredom, creates wonderful memories and most importantly the passionate and positive energy he has towards that particular thing will be passed and radiated unto you. 

We men could be very choosy yet we seem to want clones of ourselves as partners because they seem to be like our perfect match. We would love to have someone that loves our movies, our hobbies, our kind of songs, plays games (video/card/board) with us, some one that likes our kind of books, sports etc. In general we want someone that is in sync in what us. Someone that shows interest and attempt to take part in the things we like. Do this and he will always come back running to you. From your deductions it might seem all we want is a female doppelganger, which is not what I intend to point out. It’s quite evident that men find alternate personality attractive and that most men go in search for women that complement their traits (e.g. an introvert going for an extrovert).We don’t need you to have all our bad manners; a lady still has to be a lady. All we want is for you to make an attempt in becoming our clone when it comes to things we like and things we’re passionate about.

Tayo’s Law therefore states that, if any man is to describe his dream girl, he will describe a hot chick that meets his physical sexual appeal, personality requirement and LIKES TO DO WHAT HE LIKES. Challenge that!!!

Note: you should only show interest and take part in his positive, legal and safe activities.